Karlien Geldenhuis on Weekly Guidelines

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     But she starts a second topic. Not very long ago she enjoyed listening to her favourite TV preachers. There are many of them on TV and my observation is that many of us in Zambia are also hooked to our ‘favourites’.

      But Karlien listened recently to a CD which opened up her eyes in this regard. Most of these preachers are making money in the extreme; mostly where they have pubic performances. They have their newest CD ready and their latest book on one or other popular theme concerning modern life. And the people, very well entertained, order and buy the latest hits. I add my own story freshly experienced in the USA he beginning of the year: One of the very well known “favourites”, also in Zambia, charged $285 per person attending one of his famous worship services on a specific topic. And to make sure you are not disappointed, you can order your tickets from Compo Ticket.  To say the least, this is ridiculous!

       But for Karlien the money thing is only the tip of the iceberg. The “penny” dropped for her when she discerned what these preachers’ style and the contents of their TV performances did to her. For the moment it put her on a high, only to discover that before she knew she was again at her own low again. It worked exactly like a drug, she said!  So, she was waiting for the next performance-drug to lift her into a better high!  And before you know you are hooked! Hooked on something which sounds so good, but still drugged-hooked.  The sad thing is: The focus in all of this is not at all on God but it is all about yourself;  what you want, need and feel. The shocking experience: Your are a religious drug addict!

        Karlien, thank you so much! My visit at your offices most probably meant much more to me than to you. You made me re-think and meditate the question hopefully in a new way: How can we help each other to rid ourselves from any form of religious addiction?  How can we be freed from modern consumer-friendly preaching, enslaving us to our up and down feelings of excitement?  It is only by the grace of God that we can discern that modern media-religion is doing much more harm than good.

       And please understand: We cannot suddenly try to be and to think like Karlien! But may be her experience can rub off on us in God’s own time and way. The penny will drop uniquely in each of our lives at the right time – God’s time!


Karlien’s story inspired me to say a few thing perhaps more clearly [Thanks again, Karlien; the Lord used you to work into my heart, not via a video or media performance, but in a space where we have met personally – eye to eye].


* Personal


God is very personal. He is our Father, our Mother-Spirit; our Brother. Nothing can be more personal. It is Family-personal.  It is not on TV or a video recording!  And we meet Him always personal where persons are together in a small-group-meeting, but especially where we worship Him personal in a worship service for His sake, centred in his Word for us. Nothing can replace this. Anything less than this, is deceivingly dangerous, more than we may think.


* It’s not about me


Life is not about me; my feelings; my wants; my needs which should be addressed as fast as possible.  Life is all about God! Nothing more nothing less! It is like a marriage: Wife and husband are intimately part of each other. It is sickening to think that one of the partners may think or act to get something for me out of the marriage. This would mean my partner is there to be used for my sake; what I can get out of the relationship. May be I don’t feel very good about my marriage, but we are still one, for better and for worse; we are just there for each other. That is enough – that is life!


* Word en Sacraments


Personal communion with God is constantly created by His personal Word for us and His Food [Bread and Wine] for us.  And this is not in the first place to be understood. It happens in my life like visiting friends– sharing meals together. It is all about our togetherness in love. I am not counting what I can benefit from the friendly visit and meal. We are together in communion with each other. That is enough. And in the process we are rubbing off on each other — how?  We do not know, but it happens! And it cannot happen with the push of a button. We need time together. That’s how we share closeness with God through His Word and Sacraments.


* Weekly Guidelines


The Guidelines are not for a single moment meant to be “Daily Devotions” in whatever form it may be.  In these types of media- communications, other people are thinking on your behalf. It is even worse: Other people try to eat on your behalf – the Bread of Life. Others are visiting friends on your behalf. You are not personally there yourself!  It must be clear: It doesn’t make any sense! 

       The Guidelines want to help you to communicate personally with God yourself!  And this takes time!  It is not a quick fix visit!  You are with God the whole week — eating and sharing through the texts — listening and answering! Mostly listening to God in the texts — chewing on each word and sentence like a dog on a bone. Later you become saturated with the Word. The language of the texts became your language.  And how this is happening, is totally out of our control. Slowly but surely God is rubbing of on you – just like friends are rubbing of on you if you are visiting them regularly. It is like seed which is sown. First you see nothing – later you discover a green leaflet — then a bud, then the ripened grain — Jesus once told the same story, remember?

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 * The risen Lord taught His close followers for 40 days about the New Life [Kingdom] He has created for them in the world and then their response in verse 6!!  Please think very carefully; use your imagination – why did they respond this way? How are you included in their responses?

 * But Jesus clearly told them: You are totally out of line with your questions, but you will receive power. How do you understand this power?  Listen again carefully in which context is He saying this and how is it affecting them personally?   And you?

 * How do you understand it to be a witness in Jerusalem, Judea and to the ends of the world?

 * How does Jesus’ Ascension fit into His ‘power-answer’ in verse 8?

 * What else touched your heart and mind in the Ascension-story of Luke?


 * Ask the Lord for discernment to hear Him speaking to you personally in these God-stories?

 * Thank the Lord for opening your heart and ears for what His power really means to you?


* Thank God that His power changes you into a witness of Him who changes the whole world in and around you/us?

 * Thank Him that He made all of this possible in Jesus’ ascension. Celebrate it by praying Ps 47 and Ps 93 over and over?

 * Repent:  Your lust to build your own little ‘kingdom’ with the wrong power of the world. Your reluctance to be a witness of God’s “power-salvation” for everyone, all the time depending on His power!



 * Put into practice; do not hesitate to witness to everyone as Jesus commanded his followers to do. Peter the traitor did it; Paul the killer did it, remember?

 * Discuss with your friends or family how God will take you to be a witness for Him?



 Share the story of Jesus’ Ascension with your children, Tell them how it is just as important as Christmas and Easter and how important it is in your own life?

  6-11 May  2013

Conversation with Karlien Geldenhuis

“Karlien Geldenhuis in Livingstone is a straight forward person. I learn to know her this way. She is a modern young woman. She is for sure a follower of Christ. Life matters to her. She is in the media world; photography etc. And she has a sharper view on things than the average and enjoys her work. 

I want to know if the Weekly Guidelines sent out every week to help all of us to hear God’s voice from His Word perhaps more clearly, is helpful or not. Without hesitation she said: “Our small-group is not functioning well. We will talk about it again and see what we can do. But as for me the Guidelines, are not really helpful”.  Her answer is short and sweet. It is good and helpful to have parishioners like Karlien! 

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Towards a Theology of Empowerment

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2. Religious challenges

2.1 Dualistic worldview

Myers (2005) describes worldview as the way we understand and interpret the world in which we live. There is a big danger in practicing Christian faith with a dualistic worldview, i.e. the separation of the spiritual and physical realms. If this dominates Christian thought and church practice, it undermines the principles of any theology of transformation, social action and empowerment.

The modern separation of the physical and spiritual realms explains a wide range of the modern dichotomies that are prevalent in the modern worldview. For example, the spiritual world is the arena of sacred revelation, in which we know by believing. The real world where we hear, see, feel, and touch is where scientific observation allows us to know things with certainty. Faith and religion are part of the spiritual world, while reason and science provide the explanations in the real world. The spiritual world is an interior, private place; the real world is an exterior, public place. This means that values are a private matter of personal choice, having no relevance in the public square where politics and economics reign (Myers 2005:6).

In accepting the dichotomy, believers limit the scope of both sin and the gospel. “By limiting the domain of sin to a person’s soul, we inadvertently limit the scope of the gospel as well. We need to transform this way of thinking. God’s rule extends to both the spiritual and material; the redemptive work of Jesus Christ is needed wherever sin has penetrated” (Myers 2005:10).

Myers (2005:123) reckons “If the most fundamental cause of poverty is the impact of sin, then dealing with sin must be part of the Christian process of change”. He continues: “While we must deal with the individual nature of sin, we must also address its consequences as expressed in relationships that are based on a web of lies and that promote disempowerment of the poor and domination by the non-poor. This means that a Christian process of change must center on truth telling and the promotion of justice and righteousness”.

The central message of the Bible is justice-love; it is God’s unconditional love of the world. Loving God and loving your neighbour defines Christian life – Christianity is totally integrated with everyday life. Respect and love for God cannot be separated from respect and love towards human beings, e.g. Ex. 20; Lev. 19; Deut. 5; Micah 6:6-8; Rom. 13:8-10. The quality of loving God is measured by the love believers have for other people. If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen (1 John 4:20), says it all.

If we prefer to stay in our comfort zones of apathy and material riches, then we should ask ourselves whether we have got the right to call ourselves Christians.  We should heed the words of Christ in Matt 25:41:Depart from me, ye cursed into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels.And also verses 45 – 46: “…. Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me.  And these shall go away into everlasting punishment, but the righteous into life eternal(ACROS statement in 2002). 

It is also true that the poor and oppressed may oppress other poor. “If you see the poor oppressed in a district, and justice and rights denied, do not be surprised at such things; for one official is eyed by a higher one, and over them both are others higher still” (Eccl 5:8). Poor people may oppress other people who are also poor e.g. poor stealing from other poor. “The truth must be discovered about the way the poor contribute to their own poverty, and the truth must be discovered about how poverty is created by the god-complexes of the non-poor, inadequacies of worldview, and deception by the principalities and powers. Only in repenting in the face of God’s truth can relationships be restored so that life, justice, and peace (shalom) can be restored” (Myers 2005:123). Any theology of empowerment, development or social change should take this principle in consideration.

2.2 Sociology of religion

2.2.1 Janus-faced

The influence of religion (Christian faith) on society is complex.

Religion integrates and also disrupts society; it is truly Janus-faced. It may provide legitimation for the existing order, give emotional support to the fundamental values of the society, soften the impact of conflict by emphasizing values such as salvation which are common to all, and lessen social tension by supramundane value. But religion also involves transcendent moral standards which define an ideal against which human performance can be measured. Hence those who are dissatisfied politically, economically, socially, or spiritually – may find religion strong support for their attack upon status quo. Religion can be a powerful agent pushing the thoughts of men beyond tradition; it may become the spiritual dynamic of revolution (Lewy 1974:584).

The sociological perspective on religion is important to help us understand the influential forces of religion on society. Sociologists are interested in studying religion primarily for two reasons. First, religion is very important to many people… Religious values influence their actions, and religious meanings help them interpret their experiences…  Second, religion is an important object for sociological study because of its influence on society and society’s impact on religion (McGuire 1992:3). It was Calvin who said that the knowledge of the self and the knowledge of God are deeply intertwined. People develop their humanity by the image they have of God. People, who believe in an empowering God, are more open to empowerment and social change. “The way in which we conceive God and the way we speak of God have real consequences in the realm of human affairs (Case-Winters 1990:19).

Max Weber (1978) studied the influence of Calvinism in society. He found that modern capitalism originated from the Protestant faith in the Western world. He saw religion as a dynamo for social change, but it can also be legitimizing, instead of innovative. There exists an interrelationship between religion and social change.

i. A stabilising faith

The influence of Christian faith on society is mainly to stabilize communities. “There is an inherently conservative aspect to religion… Important elements in religion maintain the status quo” (Mc Guire 1992:214). A survey worth mentioning is that of Glock, Ringer and Babbie (Glock et al. 1967). They interviewed 1,885 members, including ministers and bishops of the Protestant Episcopal Church. The majority saw the church as “a refuge for those who are denied access to valued achievements and rewards in everyday American life” (ibid.:107) and “to collect and distribute clothing and food to the poor, to minister to the sick and to extend pastoral counseling to the anguished” (ibid.:204). Religion provides a haven to people in need. My research in the early nineties on poverty and dependence amongst NGKA members (before the unification of the NGKA and NGSK) indicated that they were more concerned with the stabilization of communities than the empowerment thereof. My doctoral study in 1997 confirmed this finding once again. I investigated the relation between their Christian image of God (faith) and the social empowerment of members in a rural congregation of URCSA in the Eastern Cape. The member’s faith left them immobilized and disempowered.

But it will be unfair not to acknowledge the Eastern Cape URCSA members survival strategies, the way they cope with limited resources. Poor people are sometimes blessed with amazing wisdom.

ii. Empowering faith

While I was preparing this paper, I attended a meeting on the challenges of farm schools in the George – Great Brak River region. A CBO operating in George did a presentation on their involvement at a farm school, their holistic approach, their successes and vision. A headmaster of another farm school complained of the lack of co-operation with the local farm owners. One farm schoolteacher shared her disgust with their school’s infrastructure. They don’t have running water and the pit toilet is a health and safety risk. A few Christian farm owners involved at another farm school shared their concerns. I kept quiet (not typical of me) but after two hours and two cups of Ricoffy, I decided to make a comment. I said that I think the situation at farm schools will drastically change when farm workers and farm owners, the whole farming community send their children to the same school. After my comment a Christian farm owner stood up and said I should leave politics out of the conversation. He continued, he was not willing to sell his bakkie, because his worker could afford a horse and that he worked very hard to live a good life.

Christian action takes more than welfare. True compassion includes justice (Hendriks 1974:26). “Armoedeverligting kan nie meer gesien word – soos lank in kerklike kringe gedoen is – as welsynswerk (welfare of charity) nie. Dit kan nie langer net gesien word as die uitdeel van aalmoese om die lot van sekeres effens te verlig nie. Die huidige tydgewrig roep om die permanente verandering van die lewenstog van diegene wat te weinig het om ‘n sinvolle, menswaardige lewe te lei” said Prof. Elwil Beukes, developmental economist, at a Badisa conference in 2004.

McGuire (1992:231) reckons that “certain qualities of some religions’ beliefs and practices make them more likely to effect change than other religions”. To learn more of these qualities she asked the following questions:

  • Does the belief system contain a critical standard against which the established social system and existing patterns of interaction can be measured? Those religions that emphasize a critical standard (e.g. prophetic tradition or a revolutionary myth) pose the potential of internal challenge to the existing social arrangements. The prophetic tradition of the Israelites was a basis for subsequent religious challenges to the established way of doing things…

  • How does the belief system define the social situation? Individuals’ perceptions of the social situation are shaped largely by how their belief system defines that reality. If a religion informs believers that their misfortune is part of God’s plan to test their faith, they are not likely to challenge that misfortune. Believers are unlikely to try changing a situation that the belief system has defined as one that humans are powerless to change. Belief systems that embody this kind of fatalism are not conducive to social activism…

  • How does the belief system define the relationship of the individual to the social world? Weber distinguished between religions that promote a “this-worldly” as compared with an “other-worldly” outlook. Buddhism’s interpretation of the material world and aspirations as illusion discourages this-worldly action. By contrast, many strains of Protestantism emphasize one’s “working out” of salvation in this world and one’s “stewardship”.

3. The power of God

My understanding of doing theology of empowerment, assumes faith in a liberating and empowering God. Christian images of God that take a person’s freedom away are inhuman and anxiety provoking should be rejected (Lindijer 1990:6). The God of the Christian faith is not the enemy but the friend of true human freedom (Migliore 1983:28). “Christian faith, centers on the issue of making and keeping human life human” (Migliore 1983:43).

It is so sad when members of URCSA – a “new” church with a long history of struggle against racism and injustice and a church with a unique confession (Confession of Belhar) – accept poverty as the will of God. “God is in beheer en dit moet aanvaar word”; “God beskik en gee op die regte tyd”; “dit is volgens God se plan”; “swaarkry moet aanvaar word” are a few responses of rural URCSA members I interviewed. This kind of faith tends to make them passive and paralyzed for social empowerment – it immobilizes them. Furthermore, when they perceive God as allowing suffering as a form of punishment, then it leads to the perception that God is revengeful. This results in them being shameful and strengthens powerlessness.

“The power of God made known decisively in Jesus Christ, the crucified and living Lord, is neither sheer almightiness nor mere impotence; it is power that makes for freedom, justice, and lasting community” (Migliore 1983:13). “Jesus empowers the powerless by extending God’s forgiveness and affirmation to them. He tells the nobodies of his time that they are the somebodies in God’s eyes” (ibid.).

4. The importance of narrative theology in the process of empowerment.

An important principle of doing Theology of Development is the challenge to integrate biblical principles and values to the process of transformation and empowerment. Myers integrated the whole bible story with this process. “To pursue human transformation as Christians means understanding where humanity is coming from, where it is going, and how it can get there. To do the work for transformation, we have to embrace the whole of the biblical story, the story that makes sense and gives direction to the stories of the communities where we work, as well as to our own stories” (Myers 2005:23).

“To link the gospel to the process of development, the people need to hear about the God who created the world and their culture; the God who wants human beings to worship God and love their neighbor; and the God who wants and will enable them to be productive stewards in creation” (Myers 2005:215). The biblical story is a very unusual story. “We are told the beginning, the middle, and the final chapter of the story. But the piece between Jesus and his work on the cross and the final chapter is still being written” (Myers 2005:23).

The convergence of the different stories (e.g. God’s story; community story) is a very helpful framework for setting the context in which development takes place. “Each story needs to engage all the other stories, and all need to engage the larger story of which all stories are part” (Myers 2005:11; 138).

5. Good news for rich and poor

God’s (biblical) story is for everyone, for the poor and the rich.  But “there are two ways in which human response to the story creates a bias that favors the poor (Myers 2005:55):

  • “First, it is apparently very hard for the non-poor to accept the biblical story as their story (Lk 18:18-30). Wealth and power seem to make people hard of hearing and poor at understanding (Lk 8:14)”. (If wealthy Christians are poor at understanding, I think we can refer to them as “spiritually poor”.)

  • “Second, it is the poor who most consistently seem to recognize God’s story as their story… God has always insisted that caring for the widow, orphan, and alien is a measure of the fidelity with which we live out our faith. No story, in which the poor are forgotten, ignored, or left to their own devices is consistent with the biblical story. If the poor are forgotten, God will be forgotten too. Loving God and loving neighbor are twin injunctions of a single command” (Myers 2005:55).

I do not agree with the general statement of God taking the side of the poor and oppressed blindly and that God is against the rich and the wealthy. I also disagree, as indicated before, that only the oppressed are just. Wealthy people can also convert and do justice to others. The Confession of Belhar reflects the biblical witnesses of God correctly by stating God’s special concern for the needy and the poor. God calls his church to follow “Him” by standing with “Him” against any unjust systems.

6. A “new way” of reading the Bible

There are “new ways” to allow God and the Bible to speak for themselves in the development process. “The Scripture Search use of the Bible in transformational development assumes the Bible is less a source of rules or a conceptual foundation and more creative encounter with God and the story God has chosen to tell us”.  (See figure in Myers (2005:229) Addendum 7.)

Myers (2005:231) also explains the Seven Steps approach. The emphasis is on group listening and receiving, not on the left-brain work of determining meaning (see Addendum 8).

I would like to share with you one alternative way of reading particular Bible texts. I wrote my master thesis on a socio-literary and socio-historical approach to the Old Testament book of wisdom, Ecclesiastes (Qohelet). I examined Qohelet’s reflections on wealth and poverty to discover whether his views were influenced by his social position. The text was seen as a social expression – a product, among other things, of socio-economic and political conditions of the time. In the interpretation the needs of the oppressed was kept in mind. Qohelet’s social background could be reconstructed from his reflections. He observed the oppression of the poor, but, on account of his socio-economic position, he refused to act. As a “bourgeois intellectual”, he benefited from the existing order. His choice therefore was “better dead than red” (Van Niekerk 1988).

7. And what now? …

God owns everything; we are managers or stewards of all God’s resources, and of our personal talents and the earth’s resources.

It was Ecclesiastes who said: “Whatever is has already been, and what will be has been before; and God will call the past to account” (3:15). With this paper I first thought I would be able to reflect on a Theology of Empowerment from a different and new angle, but I have soon realized nothing is new and has been said before.

Now the challenge is for us to formulate a Theology of Empowerment that is relevant, contextual, prophetic, transformative and liberating. Crucial to this is your sharing of your own stories and experiences of Christian empowerment.

I end my paper with a comma, but be warned, “… of making many books there is no end, and much study wearies the body (Eccl. 12:12),

Pieter van Niekerk


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The bright side of wrong

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Here’s what we’d gain from embracing the World Cup

There are certain things in life that pretty much everyone can be counted on to despise. Bedbugs, say. Back pain. The RMV. Then there’s an experience we find so embarrassing, agonizing, and infuriating that it puts all of those to shame. This is, of course, the experience of being wrong.

Is there anything at once so routine and so loathed as the revelation that we were mistaken? Like the exam that’s returned to us covered in red ink, being wrong makes us cringe and slouch down in our seats. It makes our hearts sink and our dander rise.

Sometimes we hate being wrong because of the consequences. Mistakes can cost us time and money, expose us to danger or inflict harm on others, and erode the trust extended to us by our community. Yet even when we are wrong about completely trivial matters — when we mispronounce a word, mistake our neighbour Emily for our co-worker Anne, make the dinner reservation for Tuesday instead of Thursday — we often respond with embarrassment, irritation, defensiveness, denial, and blame. Deep down, it is wrongness itself that we hate.

Being wrong, we feel, signals something terrible about us. The Italian cognitive scientist Massimo Piattelli-Palmarini summed up this sentiment nicely. We err, he wrote, because of “inattention, distraction, lack of interest, poor preparation, genuine stupidity, timidity, braggadocio, emotional imbalance, … ideological, racial, social or chauvinistic prejudices, as well as aggressive or prevaricatory instincts.” In this view — and it is the common one — our errors are evidence of our gravest social, intellectual, and moral failings.

Of all the things we’re wrong about, this view of error might well top the list. As ashamed as we may feel of our mistakes, they are not a by-product of all that’s worst about being human. On the contrary: They’re a by-product of all that’s best about us. We don’t get things wrong because we are uninformed and lazy and stupid and evil. We get things wrong because we get things right. The more scientists understand about cognitive functioning, the more it becomes clear that our capacity to err is utterly inextricable from what makes the human brain so swift, adaptable, and intelligent.

Misunderstanding our mistakes in this way — seeing them as evidence of flaws and an indictment of our overall worth — exacts a steep toll on us, in private and public life alike. Doing so encourages us to deny our own errors and despise ourselves for making them. It permits us to treat those we regard as wrong with condescension or cruelty. It encourages us to make business and political leaders of those who refuse to entertain the possibility that they are mistaken. And it impedes our efforts to prevent errors in domains, such as medicine and aviation, where we truly cannot afford to get things wrong.

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Boks support BAFANA

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Coach Peter de Villiers has moved the team’s off-day, which normally falls on a Thursday, forward by one day so that the team can utilise not only the public holiday to spend with friends and family, but also meet in the early evening for a team-building dinner before heading to Loftus.

The Boks have already expressed their support for Bafana Bafana publicly before the current World Cup when De Villiers and captain John Smit swopped jerseys with Bafana Bafana coach Carlos Alberto Parreira and national captain Aaron Mokoena.

Our transformation challenge: The Blue Bulls show the way!

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“And if they’d lost?” I innocently enquired.

“Ag, voetsek man!” he laughed.

But therein lies the rub. But for the change of venue 60 000 Bulls supporters would not have made it to the semi-final and the final in Soweto. They would have played at Loftus and their attitude would have stayed north of the curtain.

Transformation is about behaviour, it happens when behaviour changes, attitude then follows sometimes proudly, sometimes reflectively, and sometimes deeply.

“I want to share with you a life changing experience which my 15-year old son and I had this weekend,” says Matthew Grossett, CEO of Walk for Life.

“We were privileged enough to have attended the semi-final of the Super 14 held at the Orlando Stadium in deepest Soweto on Saturday night. For those of you who don’t know, the semi-final was between the Blue Bulls (from Pretoria) and the Crusaders (from New Zealand). As with all of us white supporters going to the game, we were filled with trepidation…Was it safe, would it be properly organised? Was it safe, how would the locals react to us arriving in Soweto? Was it safe, was it safe, was it safe, was it safe?!

On the way to the game we passed, and were passed by car after car full of Blou Bulle, most of them sporting the traditional Blue Bull hats with horns on, drinking brandy and coke. At the park-and-ride collection point (all supporters were transferred by bus to the stadium from the park and ride) the Blou Bulle were in full cry. I have never in one day seen so many people all wearing horns, drinking “spook and diesel” and – dare I say it – speaking Afrikaans (there were very few of us “souties” there). My initial thoughts were that the integration of the Bulle and the locals in Soweto was a recipe for trouble. I could not have been more wrong!

To say that the locals in Soweto came out and embraced the predominantly white Bulls supporters (and visa versa) is an understatement. Before and after the game, hundreds of light blue shirts (wearing their horns) could be seen in the local shebeens in the area around the stadium. We witnessed literally dozens of Bulls supporters hanging onto locals, eating “pap en vleis” and being taught the diski dance! After the game hundreds of us walked freely in the streets around the stadium, chatting to and interacting with the locals. I can honestly say that over the course of the entire day, I never once felt scared or nervous! Over the entire event I never witnessed one act of aggression. The goodwill and camaraderie that flowed on Saturday was an amazing advert for how far this country has come since 1994, and how much potential there is for the future. The vast majority of South Africans are truly amazing people, who can only but ensure that this country of ours just gets stronger and stronger, and better and better.

I went to bed on Saturday night very proud to be a South African, and full of confidence that, despite our well documented problems, this is a fantastic country with heaps of potential. We all just need to see the good in it and stop focusing on the negative.”

So, on a serious note, we are also celebrating (some of us anyway) a hundred years of the Union in South Africa and independence from Britain. Business Day has run a series of fascinating articles on this history with significant contributions from blacks and whites alike. They have been a compelling read and, in a way, show just how complicated our history is and therefore how complicated our transformation will be. Reading about this history has been most informative, and I guess for me has produced a number of paradoxical learnings.

•We have a shared history, but not a common history, a past in which communal-based African political traditions were repressed by liberal-based European political traditions under the guise of nationalism.
•Now we have a constitution that is as much our peace agreement as it is our supreme sanction.
•We have a national identity that is focused on common issues, but we don’t have a common identity that is focused on a national agenda.
•How we write about our history reflects our heterogeneity and our division, yet how we write about our destiny reflects our homogeneity and our union.
•Our media seems preoccupied with ahistorical opposition and otherness and seems disinterested with nation building and healing

So as we move forward faced with these complicated paradoxes , as we transform into our next centenary, will we preoccupy ourselves with more of the Bulls-in-Orlando type union and less with the Zapiro-denigrating-prophet type division?

As Peter Bruce (Business Day, 31 May) says “South Africans need to be careful not only of what we say to each other, but how we say it”.

That has to do with how we behave towards each other, and it has to do with the truth of our country.

It’s easy to find fault, talk up the negatives, say that Soweto is a dangerous place, say that “They” don’t respect life, say that this country is “Zimbabweanifying”. (I’d leave if I believed that!)

It’s harder to find the good, to talk up the positives, to go and visit Soweto or any other township, to put our arms around our fellow South Africans in a shebeen and say that our country is the best place to be.

But if we want to really transform…

That’s what we need to do!

By Steuart Pennington of www.sagoodnews.co.za

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Why Partnerships are the future of American Congregations

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The event came together organically. Joy Skjegstad and I first talked about an on-site, face-to-face event based on material she had developed in two previous books and a number of online webinars for Alban. I put together an online event flyer and a PDF file to email to potential supporters of the idea. Joy knew Al Tizon, Director of Word and Deed Network, from her previous work in Philadelphia. Al put us in touch with Ruben Ortiz from Esperanza, who provided scholarship assistance for some of their members who otherwise might not be able to afford to attend. Al also made possible the use of meeting facilities at Palmer Theological Seminary, where he also teaches; put two Sider Center Scholars at our disposal for the entire day; and arranged for overnight housing for the leaders of the workshop.

We didn’t experience a miraculous erasure of differences, many of which really do matter. And the Reign of God did not break in before we broke up and headed home at 4:00 p.m. Yet this fortuitous network of partners provides a compelling model, I believe, for congregational ministries of the future, if they are to have the resources necessary to carry out their various current projects, much less flourish and grow into new areas of faithfulness, responsibility, and vitality.

All these glorious parts of the larger community of the people of God acted like partners for these few precious hours. We yoked ourselves together and pulled in a common direction. And when it was said and done, we were glad not just for what we had learned, but for the fact that we had learned it together, differences and all.
We got a glimpse of what is possible in partnerships; and in the process we met new colleagues and we made new friends.  We saw into the future for a few hours what American congregations might look like, gathered rather than scattered, much less internally divided or opposed to one another. It was worth the trip, and worth getting metaphorical sand in my shoes. I hope that my Head Start students, now middle-aged, would have been proud to see in action what I first learned from them.